The Long Road to Stability Seven years ago, Angela Solis was severely depressed. Her husband was drinking heavily, her son had severe untreated rheumatoid arthritisarthritis, and they were very poor. Angela’s sister told her about Common Hope and insisted that Angela arrange a visit with a social worker. Angela agreed, but the day the social worker came to the house Angela’s hair wasn't done, her clothes weren't clean; she just didn't care.
The social worker realized that this was a family that needed special help. The youngest son, Danilo, qualified to become affiliated. Her son with rheumatoid arthritis was able to receive medical assistance as well. Common Hope helped with half the cost of the treatment and medication, and his condition dramatically improved. 
Angela began attending
Al-anon meetings - not to learn how to get her husband to
stop drinking, but to help herself, to learn how to live
and cope while being married to an alcoholic. Miraculously,
her husband eventually stopped drinking two years later
and has been sober for several years, working as a bricklayer.
Their oldest son, who also drank heavily, is now in AA as
well.
Eventually, Angela joined the sewing
and dressmaking class. Once in the sewing class, Angela
learned she could also return to school to complete her
education. Angela studied hard and completed 6th grade.
Then she met with one of the people in charge of scholarships.
She had the option to continue studying or become a professional
dressmaker. Angela decided to continue studying.
Every Saturday,
she attended classes. In two years, she completed three
years of schooling and graduated with her diploma in Science
and Letters.
While at Common
Hope, Angela has also taken advantage of other programs.
She learned how to plant flowers and vegetables, and make
natural medicines and soap. She was able to help her family
economically by selling what she produced.
Angela has also
volunteered to teach other adults how to read. Otto, the
Director of Adult Education, says that Angela is very self-motivated
and very special. He says that she has helped the Adult
Literacy Program a lot through teaching in the literacy
classes.
In addition to all of her studies, Angela cares for a family of seven, washes clothes by hand, keeps house, and makes 75 tortillas every day!
Angela’s
son Danilo is still affiliated in the program. He is now
18 and was diagnosed with epilepsy five years ago. He has
struggled to pass his first year because of depression and
learning difficulties caused by the disease. Common Hope
pays for his epilepsy medications, which has been a big
help for the family as the medication and the visits to
specialists are very expensive.
Angela is very grateful to Common Hope. She says that she and her family were in a bad, bad place before they started with Common Hope. “Since that time, my family has become more economically and emotionally stable, and we have progressed a lot.”
Common Hope works with hundreds of families similar to Angela’s that are struggling to bring stability to their lives. Our Family and Community Development Program strives to help them achieve that goal.
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